Adopt a Considerate Attitude

Whilst you're in Halls it's essential to adopt a considerate attitude towards other residents which will ensure a safe, enjoyable and hospitable environment for everyone.

Moving into a flat or a corridor with complete strangers can be both exciting and scary so remember to keep an open mind. If you take the time to get to know other people and to respect their views and habits, it will make your time in halls more interesting and enjoyable. You may find that your flat mates are from different parts of the country or world, or have a different religion to you, so what seems normal to you may not be to them.

Talk to your flat mates about their backgrounds and explain yours to them. This will help you to understand each other's behaviour, and prevent any misunderstandings or arguments.

Claim Your Territory

You don’t need to go to the same extent that a dog might, but claiming your territory is important from the moment you enter your hall of residence. Find your room, find your bed and find your wardrobe. Spread out your luggage if you must, but make sure that from the very first day everyone you will be living with knows what is yours. This may seem greedy and aggressive, but establishing your territory from the start will save time and tears later.

Know the Rules

All halls of residence have rules. The Terms & Conditions AND the Residences Guide explains what is and is not acceptable in your hall of residence so please do take note.

Terms and Conditions of Residence in University Accommodation 2011-12

Residences Guide for 2011-12

Establish a System

When you’ve got your territory defined establish a system by which others will know what you are doing and how you are feeling. For example, you might be a social butterfly that thrives on drop-in guests, but any distraction while you are studying can put you right off. If this is the case, you might devise a system by which you leave your door open when you are welcoming visitors, but closed and locked when you need quiet time. Other systems might include:

• Hanging a white board on your door for guests to leave messages.
• Setting an away message for electronic messages to let friends know where you are and what you are up to.
• Arranging an SOS text so roommates know when you need privacy.
• Labelling/marking food or drink that is off-limits to others.
• Clearly defining which of your clothes/shoes/electronics you are willing to share and which are off-limits to anyone besides you.

Be Willing to Compromise

Above all else, willingness to compromise will lead you to a successful life in your hall of residence. Remember that everyone who lives there has the right to live their lives as well, though their proclivities for practicing opera or the drums at 3 am may not make them many friends. If you do encounter problems with others, try talking to them about it before you make a formal complaint. If this doesn’t work, then make sure you have names, dates and examples ready before you take your case any further. Evidence and witnesses are the only ways you may be able to prove your point.

For most people life in halls of residence can be both fun and successful. There will always be events that are frustrating and events that are heart warming, but no matter what, it will be an experience like none other. Make the most of it, because no doubt you will look back on these days and smile.